Thank you so much for the private reading you gave me the other day. I really love the insight and rightness you always seem to share with your readings. I’d love some relationship insight at the moment. I’m not sure how to phrase a question so I guess general guidance would be great. What can I expect out of my relationship and how should I handle the coming months?
Rebecca,
Miss Michele admits, I did a throw yesterday for this question, with my Moon Garden deck. It didn’t “feel” right. I have done so many readings for you, it appears you have your own deck in my collection; the Hanson-Roberts works best for the connection between us.
It would seem, however, your gut instincts are correct… the relationship in its current form is not working. The past shows the Ace of Swords, a card of strength and powerful intellect. You made a strong connection with this person, and the relationship started off strong… more as an intellectual connection than “true love” however. You may have also both spent so much time analyzing the negative points of the relationship and the challenges ahead that you blocked “the good stuff.”
The near future shows your state of mine, in the Nine of Swords. With all the turmoil in your life right now, your relationship is just another thing adding to your sleepless nights! Additionally, your worries may not be as bad as they seem. (Across the board.)
Before looking at the Final Outcome, Miss Michele drew another card, signifying “Advice.” Miss Michele knows what *she* wants to suggest, but this is a tarot reading, not counseling.
The Tarot’s Advice comes in the form of the Major Arcana, the Star. While the three minor arcana in the initial reading would indicate the choice is entirely in your hands, the Star is supporting this assertion: Trust your instincts. If you think this isn’t going anywhere, change it! The cards don’t seem to be saying dismiss it entirely, but the current course of action is not working.
The final outcome, if you don’t make any changes, according to the tarot, is the Five of Cups, the card of emotional poverty. However, while it may look bad–you may be disappointed from the loss, or unhappy and emotionally unfulfilled if you stay, all is not lost. We must release the bad in our life to make way for new, better opportunities. (As you know well!) Allow yourself to feel the grief over the loss of this relationship, but know that better things are on the horizon.
Hi Miss Michele,
You have been recommended to me, as I am interested in a receiving a 3 card free Tarot Reading.
My name is Stephanie and I am 53. I feel particularly unsettled at the moment and would like some guidence. Do you need any other details about me?
Cheers,
Stephanie
Let’s see what the cards have to say, Stephanie. That should be enough information to give you some insight into your situation. But Miss Michele is wondering who offered the recommendation. Can you say?
Unsettled, indeed!! The first card, in the past, is the Three of Swords. This card typical indicates a romantic break-up, but it can also indicate another great loss–children leaving for college (empty nest syndrome), loss of a job, family, best friend… perhaps a move that has taken you away from family, friends and everything you love? Whatever the specifics of the situation, the emotions are running strong. You’ve hit rock bottom with this somewhat unexpected change. Even if you saw it coming, it was worse than you imagined it would be.
The next card, the Nine of Pentacles, shows your need to be self-reliant now. At the same time, you are trying to get in touch with your nurturing side again–with no one left to nurture. However, you WILL find peace and will realize you CAN make it alone. Changing your personal space, with home renovations (however small) can help. You may also be undergoing a professional endeavor where you are working for yourself and doing very well…but that doesn’t alleviate the loneliness.
The Final Outcome, I’m sorry to say, shows more of the same for a while… the Two of Swords shows you are at an impasse. A reconciliation may be possible, but first, you
must remove the blindfold from your eyes and see the truth. Accept things as what they are, not what you wish they could be, and you will be free to move forward. A truce *is* possible, but you must first face the storm. You have a very nurturing soft side, don’t be afraid to let it out right now. Yes, that has hurt you in the past, but it’s worth the risk. You will solve this matter through heart, not intellect.
Please let me know if you have any questions or if I can clarify further. I hope this helps. My thoughts are with you.
OrganizedWriter asks: I have a feeling I may see some new developments on the relationship front. Is my boyfriend planning to propose soon?
The past, or heart of the matter, shows a card that clearly represents the boyfriend–a stable force in OrganizedWriter’s life, who has been there for quite a while. The King of Pentacles provides financial security, and may also indicate that boyfriend has been saving for a ring…he’s doing this the smart way!
This card also indicates positive changes regarding organization, business plans, and devotion to entrepreneurship going on in Organized Writer’s life. She may have recently undergone a self-improvement program–okay, Miss Michele *knows* she has–that is bringing financial and business success.
We often find that when we make improvements in our life, taking matters into our own hands, it comes to pass that we get what we need and want from others, as well. This is the situation here!
The near future shows the Six of Cups, a card often indicating “the good old days.” In this case, what OrganizedWriter wants is not her *own* past, per se, but a typical happy family unit, complete with marriage and possibly even more kids. It will happen… actually, it IS happening…but not with the conventional symbols (ie, proposal and marriage) just yet.
The Nine of Pentacles in the Final Outcome supports the tarot’s assertion that a pregnancy/new child could be in the future. The Nine of Pentacles is the card of fertility. It also represents newfound self-sufficiency, which is what OrganizedWriter is experiencing right now. Emphasis seems to be on business and finance. I would say financial obstacles may be blocking the proposal at this moment, but it will happen when the stars align and the timing is right.
L. Shepherd said…
“I would love a free reading if you have the time. My life is freaky and I just want to know if it will ever get better.”
First, Miss Michele apologizes for the lateness of this response. I hope things have already started looking up for you. Let’s see what the tarot has to say.
The card in the past, the Nine of Swords, definitely indicates “freakiness.” More specifically, sleepless nights, anxiety, endless worries.
But two court cards indicate things will get better. Court cards, especially kings and queens, often indicate mentors who will step in and help the querent.
The near future brings the King of Rods. You will have the opportunity to meet and mingle with many very different people. An older, more mature man may offer much-needed advice or a way out. If the cause of your distress is a disagreement with a person or group of people, you will be able to see their point of view and reach a diplomatic arrangement.
Three minor arcana in this reading tell us that the situation is entirely in your hands… whether by omission, commission or simply manifestation, you have created this situation. Go inside yourself and figure out how… the answers on how to get out of it will come to you, as well.
The possible outcome is shown in the Queen of Rods. The King’s counterpart, the Queen of Rods is a well-organized career woman capable of balancing work and family. Seek balance in your life and your situation will improve. Similarly, an older, wiser woman will offer advice to get you past these hurdles and open new doors of opportunity for you. Be assertive to get what you want, but also understanding. Avoid debating like a steamroller. Look at both sides of every situation. 
And open yourself up to being helped… the Universe is there to help you if you let it.

TJWriter asks:Can I have another free reading, Miss Michele?
I found out some wonderful news today, and I wonder if this will be as great as I hope?
The first card, the King of Pentacles, shows your past. You have built a strong financial foundation for future endeavors. Your partner is ready to become a protector and provider (or perhaps expand that role).
The King of Swords, in the near future, shows unconventional methods. You may be dealing with overbearing professionals and seeking “a better way” to do things. The tarot warns to get in touch with your feelings. There’s a lot going on in your life, a lot of preparations to be made and, on top of it all, there may have been a new job, responsibilities or promotion. Take time for yourself, meditation, and exercise!
The Outcome, the Chariot, shows a major move in the near future. Through it all, remember that you are in control… People may be offering advice, “wisdom” and even old wives’ tales. Follow your heart. Stay centered and calm. You know what you need to do, go after it and don’t listen to those who tell you different.
TJWriter, knowing the good news you received, it was challenging to make sense of this combination of cards as it relates to that. I can’t help but think you’re facing challenges with doctors–or maybe just insurance companies–or overbearing relatives trying to tell you what is best. The Chariot is saying choose your own path. You will do the right thing. Don’t be drawn off course or lose focus.