This week on RadioXShow we had an anonymous listener request a free three-card reading asking about her love situation. Reading for ‘anon’ can be challenging. We have no details, we don’t even know their gender and it can be harder to ‘tune in’ to a querient without their name. After the show, anonymous ordered the more detailed L-for-Love Spread. With more cards, more detail, and a greater connection the three-card spread makes complete sense but here is what the six-card spread tells us.
The Lovers as the last card indicates a choice and now I see what choice you have to make. Hopefully this L-for-Love Spread will shed additional light on the situation for you.
Your past experience in love: Judgment: The Major Arcana, Judgment, supports the fact that you have a difficult choice to make. You may be judging your current lover as someone (your ex) judged you in the past.
Your current experience in love: Queen of Swords: You are being very analytical about your situation, perhaps to try to mask your true feelings. Your emotions for your ex are also making you feel cold toward your current lover.
What you want from a love relationship: The World: There is no compromising your expectations or settling for second best when it comes to romance. You want “all that and a barrel of monkeys, too!” A lover, a partner, a best friend… someone who, quite literally, completes your world.
What you need from a love relationship: Eight of Pentacles: You need someone who will put up with your demanding nature, who will fulfill all your needs but will also “school” you—teach you the art of compromise, give and take, and mature love. At the same time, the Eight of Pentacles is the “work” card — you need someone willing to work as hard as you are at the relationship.
What you have to give your lover: Six of Cups: The Six of Cups calls to mind the phrase, “The Halcyon Days of Old.” Are you idealizing your past with your ex, at the expense of your relationship with your fiancé? This card shows that what you have to give your lover is “the way things were,” but better, because you have learned from your mistakes. If you choose to stay with your fiancé, you will be entering the relationship smarter; you won’t repeat the same mistakes. In fact, as a result of your resurfacing feelings from your ex, if you work through the problems with your fiancé, your relationship will grow stronger. However, the Tarot seems to indicate that is not the choice you will make…
Possible future experience in love: The Fool: The Fool represents jumping headfirst into the future, new experiences (or old experiences revisited) with little regard to feelings or emotions of those left behind. You don’t mean to hurt your fiancé, but you must do what is best for you. If you do leave your fiancé, you can expect a fun and passionate relationship with your ex that feels, in fact, more like a “new love” than your current romance does.
A new visitor is curious about romance. Miss Natasha (it’s a tarot reader thing!) asks: My question is.. Will Steven and I get back together within 6 months?
Miss Michele drew three cards for this reading: Present or Heart of the Matter/Tarot’s Advice/Probable Outcome.
The Knight of Pentacles indicates some sort of contact between Miss Natasha and Steven. They are making progress since their break-up. They still view each other as a stable, secure influence in each other’s life. They still turn to each other.
The Ten of Rods shows hard work ahead as they work to correct their mistakes from the past. Miss Natasha may grow resentful that she’s putting more into their friendship than he is. The card also shows romantic maturity, so there is great potential here.
Finally, the King of Rods in the Outcome indicates that they will learn the ability to compromise and see each other’s points of view. From there, a strong relationship could develop and, if it does, it could be filled with passion and mutual attraction, which is what they had in the past.
The Wands in this reading show a very active phase for the next six months between Steven and Miss Natasha, and a huge learning period for their relationship. With no Cups in the reading, Miss Michele is hesitant to read this definitively as them getting back together, romantically, but, at the very least, a very strong friendship will develop.. and it could be more.